jazz-e-clectic:

ganimechique:

sonneillonv:

moodyspacebabe:

lofty-vanguard:

liferuining-soulsnatcher:

skinnyblackbeardtattoos:

pussy-and-pizzza-x:

guyinpink:

lenabeanss:

guyinpink:

Women can be trash and abusive as well.

Fact

This statement is taken so lightly. For one women don’t believe they can be abusive and the view of society on men prohibits the fact that a woman could successfully mentally, physically and emotionally abuse a man.

I went through all the notes. And a lot of y’all faves don’t even like or reblog things like this

^^^ because they’re the women that this post is about.

This is very important

A lot of men are emotionally and mentally abused by women under the guise of “if you love me then you’ll accept me as I am” and “you’re not man enough to handle a strong woman like me”. A lot of men put up with emotional and mental abuse from women simply because they believe it’s a measurement of their manhood how much they can endure and there are women who know that. They manipulate the emotional and mental playing fields to entice conflict so they can be the victim and cause the man to break down and be easily used and treated how she sees fit….

It’s a very dangerous thing, mental and emotional abuse because it’s so easily masked behind other things

Faaacts 🗣

I was literally just talking with a dude today, a professional who came out to inspect for termites, who let me know he’s going through a divorce.  He chose to leave.  He said his wife pressured him into quitting his job, controlled the finances and tried to prevent him from taking any of the money he earned when he left, hated his family and friends and tried to cut him off from seeing them, and pulled a bunch of manipulative shit to try and stop him from leaving and keep him home, without a social life.

He was the type of person who’d say ‘fuck this’ and get out of that relationship.  But not everybody is that time.  Some are more vulnerable than others.  Men can be manipulated, bullied, coerced, and abused.

I’ve been manipulated and abused by women and I am a woman. I know what those kinda people are capable of. Women can be toxic as well, know the signs and check that bihh before you dip

👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽same

honestly makeup is cool, but the particular intersection of

yikes that is not my face !!!!!! where is my face??? !!!!! MY FACE???

and

u cannot touch ur face at all now u fidgety weirdo GOOD LUCK

kindaaaaa ruins it

identityconstellations:

identityconstellations:

if 👏 someone 👏 doesn’t 👏 want 👏 to 👏 reblog 👏 your 👏 shit 👏 DO 👏 NOT 👏 ATTEMPT 👏 TO 👏 GUILT 👏 THEM 👏 INTO 👏 DOING 👏 SO 👏

“likes don’t count!”

yes they do. they liked it. maybe not enough to reblog it. maybe they didn’t WANT to reblog it. it doesn’t matter. it’s their blog. their choices. get over yourselves.

a thought-

my tendency to follow people, and then find out later that they are ace is the sad internet version of all the gay kids subconsciously finding each other in middle school. 

…wish it worked irl

candidlyautistic:

mrozna:

hawkeyedflame:

biphobicerasurer:

hawkeyedflame:

t-i-a-r-n-a-c-a-p-a-i-l-l:

If you’re one of those people who thinks executive dysfunction only happens for things we don’t like (school, cleaning,) then please consider the fact that I’ve been meaning to plug my phone in for 20 minutes and I’m now at 2% and still putting it off to write this post ¯_(ツ)_/¯

My anime/video game list consists of over 100 titles, easily, and yet I almost never get around to watching/playing any of them.

Executive dysfunction is not just for boring or unenjoyable things. It’s for everything. Even eating.

What is executive dysfunction? O.o

Put simply, it’s difficulty/inability with initiating tasks. The prefrontal cortex is responsible for executive functions, like decision-making and impulse control. People with ADHD and other neurological disorders that affect the prefrontal cortex often experience difficulty making decisions and performing tasks, as well as exercising self restraint. Part of why people with ADHD tend to procrastinate so badly is out of genuine inability to begin tasks, even if they’re very important.

It feels, for me at least, like I’m constantly waiting for something and I can’t start X task because I’m waiting. I never know what exactly I’m waiting for, but that doesn’t stop me from wasting hours and days not doing the things I need to do, even if I have a desire to do them.

It feels, for me at least, like I’m constantly waiting for something and I can’t start X task because I’m waiting. I never know what exactly I’m waiting for, but that doesn’t stop me from wasting hours and days not doing the things I need to do, even if I have a desire to do them.

Oh thank god, someone put it into words.

For me it’s also waiting for the “right” time to come to complete the task because for some reason my brain thinks doing the task at any other time is horribly, horribly wrong, weird, and out of order. The “right” time might come eventually, might not. It’s a lottery.

Such a good description.

citizen-of-the-fandom:

Things fanfiction has taught me:

Always say “I love you” when you think it

Make breakfast with and for your loved ones

Even if it’s not Conventional Breakfast Time

Talk, even especially about things you think are obvious

Hug often and long

If you really, really want to read something, you might have to write it yourself.